How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days is a 2003 romantic comedy film directed by Donald Petrie and starring Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey. The film follows a magazine writer and an advertising executive who enter a relationship with competing secret agendas, leading to a series of comedic misadventures. The script was written by Kristen Buckley, Brian Regan, and Burr Steers. For Canadian audiences, the film's themes of dating mishaps and workplace ambition resonated widely, and its continued cultural relevance is affirmed by the announcement of a sequel in development for 2026.
Plot and Premise
The narrative of How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days centres on two New York professionals with conflicting personal missions. Andie Anderson, a columnist for the women's magazine Composure, is frustrated with her lightweight assignments and pitches an article titled 'How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days'. Her plan is to scientifically drive a man away by committing every classic dating mistake. Concurrently, advertising executive Benjamin Barry seeks to land a prestigious diamond account by proving to his boss he understands women. He makes a bet that he can make any woman fall in love with him within ten days. Unbeknownst to either, Ben's rivals select Andie as his target, setting the stage for a romantic charade where both participants are secretly working at cross purposes. Andie's campaign of sabotage includes interrupting a crucial basketball game, creating a scrapbook of their imaginary future children, and inundating Ben's apartment with pink decor and a puppy. Despite these extreme tactics, Ben is compelled by his wager to endure her behaviour, leading to increasingly absurd scenarios including a faux couples therapy session. The pair's weekend trip to visit Ben's family in Staten Island begins to foster genuine feelings, complicating their original objectives. The conflict culminates at a company ball where both deceptions are revealed, causing a public breakup before a final reconciliation where they acknowledge their true feelings.
Production and Development
The film's development initially involved actress Gwyneth Paltrow and director Mike Newell, but scheduling conflicts led to their departure from the project. Director Donald Petrie, known for other comedies like Miss Congeniality, ultimately took the helm. The screenplay was written by Kristen Buckley, Brian Regan, and Burr Steers, loosely inspired by a humorous illustrated guidebook of the same name. A key creative contribution came from production designer Zoë Waterman, who was tasked with conceiving the main characters' apartment interiors. Waterman, born in Yeadon, stated she designed 'dream spaces' that represented her ideal living environments, with the concepts coming together rapidly. The film's notable fashion moment, the butter-yellow backless gown worn by Kate Hudson, was a custom creation by designer Carolina Herrera in collaboration with the film's costume designer. It was specifically constructed to complement the fictional 'Isadora Diamond' necklace, an 80-carat yellow diamond piece designed by Harry Winston and valued at approximately six million dollars. The necklace itself, referred to in the film as the Isadora Diamond after Isadora Duncan, was a central prop in the advertising storyline.
Cast and Characters
The film's success is largely attributed to the chemistry between its two lead actors. Kate Hudson portrays Andie Anderson, the ambitious and clever magazine columnist who finds her professional experiment colliding with unexpected emotions. Matthew McConaughey plays Benjamin Barry, the confident advertising executive whose wager forces him to manage a relationship increasingly fraught with bizarre challenges. The supporting cast features several notable performers who provide comic relief and plot propulsion, including Kathryn Hahn as Andie's friend Michelle, who inspires the article after another breakup. Adam Goldberg and Thomas Lennon play Ben's friends Tony and Thayer, who push him to continue the charade. Michael Michele and Shalom Harlow appear as rival coworkers Judy Spears and Judy Green, who orchestrate the pairing of Andie and Ben. Robert Klein plays Ben's boss Phillip Warren, who proposes the wager, and Bebe Neuwirth plays Andie's demanding editor Lana Jong. The ensemble cast effectively builds the world of early 2000s Manhattan media and advertising, with the two Judys serving as the catalysts who knowingly pair Andie and Ben for their own amusement.
Release and Box Office Performance
How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days was released theatrically in North America by Paramount Pictures on February 7, 2003, and opened in Germany on April 17, 2003. It debuted strongly, earning $23.8 million in its first weekend in the United States and Canada. The film demonstrated considerable staying power, ultimately grossing $105.8 million domestically. Internationally, it added a further $71.7 million, bringing its worldwide total to $177.5 million against a production budget reported variably as $50 million or $60 million. This financial return was a clear success, and the film's popularity extended to the home video market. By December 2003, the video had sold 3.79 million copies, generating an additional $67.2 million in revenue for the studio. The soundtrack album, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days: Music from the Motion Picture, was released by Virgin Records on January 28, 2003, featuring artists like Keith Urban, Al Green, and Sixpence None the Richer. The album's tracklist included songs such as 'Feels Like Home' by Chantal Kreviazuk and 'Follow You Down' by the Gin Blossoms, which were featured throughout the film.
Critical Reception and Cultural Impact
Critical reception for the film was mixed upon its initial release. On the review aggregator Rotten Tomatoes, it holds a 42 percent approval rating based on 150 reviews, with an average rating of 5.1 out of 10. The site's consensus notes Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson are charming together but could not overcome the film's silly premise and predictable script. Metacritic assigned a weighted average score of 45 out of 100, based on 31 critics, indicating mixed or average reviews. In contrast, audience reception was significantly more positive, with CinemaScore polls reporting an average grade of 'A, ' from moviegoers. Over time, the film has cemented its status as a frequently watched title within the romantic comedy genre. The yellow Carolina Herrera gown worn by Hudson became a widely discussed piece of cinema fashion, noted for its design and connection to the valuable diamond necklace. The film's premise and the comedic escalation of Andie's sabotage tactics, such as naming his penis Princess Sophia and giving him a 'love fern', have made it a subject of frequent reference. McConaughey himself has reflected on the film as an 'anchor' in the rom-com canon, highlighting its lasting place in popular culture and its role in the careers of both leads during that period.
Announced Sequel and Development Status
In August 2026, Paramount Pictures confirmed that a sequel to How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days is in early development. Original star Kate Hudson is attached to produce the project through her Shiny Penny banner alongside veteran producer Stacey Sher, whose credits include Pulp Fiction and Erin Brockovich. According to industry reports from Variety, the studio's intention is for both Hudson and Matthew McConaughey to reprise their roles as Andie Anderson and Benjamin Barry. Development is in the early stages, with the project currently seeking a screenwriter, so casting will depend on the final script and take. The sequel is part of a broader trend in Hollywood of producing follow-ups to popular early 2000s films, capitalizing on nostalgia, similar to other announced projects like The Devil Wears Prada 2 and Practical Magic 2. The original film's commercial success, grossing nearly $180 million worldwide, and its lasting popularity are the primary drivers behind the decision to develop a new chapter over two decades later. Representatives for Hudson and McConaughey did not immediately respond to requests for comment regarding their potential involvement as actors in the new film.
Film Soundtrack and Musical Details
The official motion picture soundtrack served as a companion piece to the film, featuring a blend of contemporary pop, rock, and classic songs that accompanied various romantic and comedic moments. Released ahead of the film in January 2003, the album includes several tracks that became associated with key scenes. Keith Urban's 'Somebody Like You' and Chantal Kreviazuk's 'Feels Like Home' provided melodic highlights, while Al Green's 'Let's Stay Together' and Carly Simon's 'You're So Vain' added a classic feel. The tracklist is presented in the following table, which details each song's artist and runtime, illustrating the musical landscape crafted for the film.
| Track Title | Artist | Length |
|---|---|---|
| Somebody Like You | Keith Urban | 3:51 |
| Good Day | Luce | 4:06 |
| Feels Like Home | Chantal Kreviazuk | 4:41 |
| Who Do You Love? | George Thorogood and the Destroyers | 4:21 |
| Let's Stay Together | Al Green | 3:15 |
| Follow You Down | Gin Blossoms | 4:29 |
| You're So Vain | Carly Simon | 4:18 |
| Kiss Me | Sixpence None the Richer | 3:19 |
| L-O-V-E | Fisher | 2:37 |
| Catch Me If You Can | The Beu Sisters | 3:35 |
| Weight of the World | Chantal Kreviazuk | 3:34 |
The soundtrack album, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days: Music from the Motion Picture, was released by Virgin Records on January 28, 2003. It features songs such as 'Kiss Me' by Sixpence None the Richer and 'Feels Like Home' by Chantal Kreviazuk. The music was part of the film's overall presentation and marketing. The selection of songs complemented the narrative of the film.
Key Creative Contributions and Design
Beyond the director and lead actors, several key creative figures shaped the film's distinct visual and narrative style. Producer Lynda Obst, who initially struggled to secure director Mike Newell, oversaw the project's transition to Donald Petrie. The screenplay by Kristen Buckley, Brian Regan, and Burr Steers incorporated the dating 'don'ts' from the original picture book while crafting an original story and characters. Production designer Zoë Waterman's work on the apartment interiors was a defining element, as she aimed to create aspirational living spaces that reflected a dreamlike quality for the New York setting. The film's costume design played a crucial role, most notably in the creation of the yellow silk gown by Carolina Herrera, which was engineered to work with the Harry Winston necklace. The 80-carat yellow diamond in that necklace, referred to as the Isadora Diamond within the film's narrative, was a central object in Benjamin Barry's advertising campaign plotline. These combined elements of set design, fashion, and prop detail contributed significantly to the film's polished, early-2000s aesthetic that audiences found appealing.
Actor Careers and Film Context
How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days arrived at a specific point in the careers of its two lead actors and within the romantic comedy genre. For Kate Hudson, the film followed her Academy Award nominated role in Almost Famous and preceded other comedic work. Her most recent film role noted in reports was in 2025's Song Sung Blue, for which she earned a second Oscar nomination. For Matthew McConaughey, the film was part of a series of romantic comedies he made in the early 2000s, which he later consciously stepped away from to pursue dramatic roles in films like Dallas Buyers Club, which won him the Best Actor Oscar in 2014. He described the film as an 'anchor' in the rom-com canon and only recently ended a six-year big-screen hiatus with the 2026 film The Rivals of Amziah King. The film's success also benefited from the established popularity of the genre at the time, and its plot device of a bet-driven romance echoed other successful comedies. The supporting cast members, such as Kathryn Hahn and Thomas Lennon, have also seen their profiles rise significantly in the years since the film's release.
Andie's Sabotage Tactics
- Making him miss the final moments of a New York Knicks basketball game.
- Creating a detailed scrapbook of their imaginary future children.
- Giving his penis the name 'Princess Sophia'.
- Stocking his apartment with feminine hygiene products.
- Filling his bathroom with numerous stuffed animals and toys.
- Covering his furniture and belongings with pink fabrics and decor.
- Introducing a not-yet-housebroken puppy into his home.
- Gifting him a 'love fern' and insisting on its care.
During a boys' poker game night, Andie arrives unannounced and behaves outrageously. This finally drives Ben to break up with her, which is a relief to Andie. However, Ben's friends Tony and Thayer push him to stay the course and propose couple's therapy. Ben then chases after Andie and she reluctantly agrees to continue the relationship.
Box Office and Home Video Milestones
The film was a box office success, grossing $177.5 million worldwide against a production budget of $50 million. It earned $23.8 million in its first weekend of release in the United States. Its final gross was $105.8 million in the United States and Canada, and $71.7 million internationally. As of December 2003, the video sold 3.79 million copies, earning revenue of $67.2 million.
- Opening weekend gross in the United States and Canada: $23.8 million (February 2003).
- Final domestic box office gross (U.S. and Canada): $105.8 million.
- Final international box office gross (excluding Canada): $71.7 million.
- Worldwide theatrical gross total: $177.5 million.
- Reported production budget: $50 million to $60 million.
- Home video units sold by December 2003: 3.79 million copies.
- Home video revenue generated: $67.2 million.
The worldwide gross of $177.5 million confirmed the film's significant financial success. The home video sales added substantial secondary revenue for the studio. The film's performance solidified its status as a hit within the romantic comedy genre. Its commercial success contributed to its enduring popularity in subsequent years.
Notable Fashion and Prop Details
- The butter-yellow silk gown: A custom, backless dress created by designer Carolina Herrera.
- The 'Isadora Diamond' necklace: An 80-carat yellow diamond piece designed by Harry Winston.
- Appraised value of the necklace: Approximately $6 million.
- The gown's design purpose: Specifically constructed to complement and display the necklace.
- Inspiration for the necklace's name: The dancer Isadora Duncan.
The yellow gown was specifically constructed to complement the Isadora yellow diamond necklace. The dress is a much talked about piece of modern cinema fashion. It remains one of the most recognized costumes from a romantic comedy of that era. The items provided a glamorous visual payoff for the film's climax.
Questions about How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Is there going to be a How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days 2?
Yes, a sequel was confirmed to be in early development as of August 2026. Paramount Pictures is behind the project, with original star Kate Hudson attached as a producer. The studio intends for both Hudson and Matthew McConaughey to reprise their lead roles, though casting is not yet final as the project is still seeking a screenwriter. Plot details for the new film remain under wraps, but it is part of a wave of nostalgic sequels to early 2000s properties.
How much money did How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days make?
How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days was a major box office success. It grossed $105.8 million in the United States and Canada and an additional $71.7 million internationally, for a worldwide total of $177.5 million. The film was produced on a budget estimated between $50 and $60 million, making it a highly profitable venture for Paramount Pictures. Its strong performance extended to home video, where by December 2003 it had sold 3.79 million copies, earning $67.2 million.
Where was How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days filmed?
The film is set in New York. A sequence involves Ben taking Andie to meet his family in Staten Island. The apartment interiors were conceived by sculptor Zoë Waterman. She designed the spaces to be dream apartments for the characters.
Did Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey get along during filming?
Matthew McConaughey recalled their first meeting in a 2024 interview. He said they were immediately comfortable with each other and they laughed a lot. He described an immediate rock and roll exchange. This rapport contributed to their on screen chemistry.
Who directed How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days?
The film was directed by Donald Petrie. He directed the 2003 romantic comedy from a script written by Kristen Buckley, Brian Regan, and Burr Steers. Originally, Gwyneth Paltrow and director Mike Newell were attached to the project, but producer Lynda Obst could not secure Newell's commitment to a date, and Paltrow moved on to another film. Petrie ultimately helmed the project, which starred Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey. The film was released by Paramount Pictures and became a significant box office success.
What is the yellow dress from the movie?
The well-known dress is a butter yellow silk gown created by designer Carolina Herrera in collaboration with the film's costume designer. It was specifically designed to be backless to show the 'Isadora Diamond' necklace worn by Kate Hudson's character. This fictional necklace, named after Isadora Duncan, featured an 80 carat yellow diamond designed by Harry Winston and was valued at six million dollars. The gown has become a celebrated piece of cinema fashion, widely recognized from the film's climactic scenes.
Sources and further reading
- How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (Wikipedia)
- 'How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days' Sequel Set Up at Paramount (variety.com)
- Kate Hudson to produce How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days ... (bbc.com)
- Une suite de How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days en préparation (lapresse.ca)
Checked by the Yadude Books desk. Last updated 2026-10-30.

